Should I divorce her this time?

Wow man that's a powerful situation. There are some pro's and con's to ending a marriage. I'm a 28 year old recently divorced man, got divorced last feb. I have to applaud your wife for atleast going to therapy with you, my wife refused to go. The problem with your situation is, usually when 2 people are together, and then things start to fade, usually they fade. I saw my divorce coming about a year before we actually decided to move in that direction. I don't care who you are, after the divorce, you will be bothered with if you could have done something different. What you have to realize is you are in real time now, and the past is the past. This does not mean you have an excuse to be nasty to your wife, it needs to be a clean break up, leave with neutral respect. And Explosive heated nasty divorce is very straining mentally. So , maybe in the future you two could make better friends than a couple you know? I wish my divorce didn't end so nasty. Don't follow my road!!! Make it a clean break,