My sister and mom want me to dress....girly?

putting it simple im emo asain/raver/granola child its just me im my own person, i wear skinny jeans with cute graphic shirts, with eather pixie boots converse or some shoe that fits my style....ocationally i wear shorts but my sister and i are almost completly diffrent,she dresses really classy but she likes some stuff i do and shes super girly she wont even go outside i love the out doors, my mom is well fairly odd but shes not girly her self. Well there on some type of mission to change me i guess but there constnaly making me feel bad about my self cause of who i am. I dont like scene but i love asains esecially the japanese there so gorgiouse!!! But im not girly and im not a super hard core tom boy eather. I dont think my mom and my sister relize that they make me feel bad, but i dont know how to please them,like when we go shopping my mom will look at girly stuff and ask me to try it on and tell me i look beautiful. But once again i dont think im ugly, i just dont know what to do...i want to be my self but not be super girly......can someone help me? Should i please them or just be me?