How can I get more womanly everyday? Any tips please answer because it is so important to me?

Hi. I want to get more womanly. Look I am not organized, no so hygienic and very dumb. I don't have the skills a girl or a woman should have. I don't know how to walk,act,talk and dress like a woman. I moved to Bronx, NY just one and a half year now and people here curse so much that I started to do this too. How can I stop doing these bad things? Please I need your help.